I dont know if this is going to turn into a rant or a venting, so please just bear with me! After these last couple of days I feel like a doormat!! SO I have this friend who has been through several surgeries and all of course with her dh in iraq with mine. Well, lets start all over at the beginning. While doing some training was happening for our dh we would check in with each other occassionally and well vent about our rough spots. The only thing is I tend to bottle all mine up until a breaking point so it really was mostly her venting, which I had and have no issues with other wives venting..if you need to release tension or vent due to stress then I am always an open ear or a shoulder that you may need to cry on. But one day I happened to have a really tough day and I happened to break down and cry while talking to her. SHE immediately called her dh after getting off the phone with me and told him to find my dh and to call home immediately because it was an emergency. He went and found my dh while in a briefing and pulled him out and told him to call me. My dh and I have this understanding as does anyone in the military life that if they dont answer right away when they get a moment they will respond. That caused a HUGE fight between me and my dh. He calmed down after I started explaining things and well was pissed off. SOOOOO lets speed up just a couple weeks. She has surgery and a massive one without her dh by her side, which at times we all know that will happen! She then goes through several hiccups in her recovery period. Then she had to have another surgery and apparently got some horrible news that was an emergency. So I then attempted to contact my dh and ask him if he had seen hers. He said no and then apparently it got worse well I was really concerned for her. I tried contacting her to see what she needed since she I dont know where she lives. OK SO GET THIS today on her fb page she post that she was planning vacation!! VACATION people!! There is other history inbetween there that I would rather leave out..so I am tired of the dramatic wanna be premadonna tiara wanna wearing prissyness this chica has going on..I almost wanna slap that thing off her head right now! Thats how aggravated I am right now...ok so I am shutting up if any of you ladies have ever had this issue please advice would be nice...thanks!